As a fellow old man who asked this exact question a wee while ago, after being constantly whipped by 10yr old son at SW battlefront (after FPS on a PC, just can’t use a controller), I ended up with the following:
Everybodies Gone to the Rapture – just a wonderfully beautiful and interesting game, loved it, very emotional
Dirt Rally – just sublime, hard, but gloriously good fun. The real, tangible difference between hacking through nadgery muddy Welsh stages, bouncing off the snow in Sweden and then hammering at ludicrous speed through open Finnish stages is just wonderful
Journey – not started it yet but looking forward to it
Just IMHO, but if you like driving games in any way, get the new dirt rally, it’s really fab.