Why is it that my local Mac fanbois here in the office keeps telling me that I should just buy a macbook
The clue is in the question.
I would say that the requirement for lots of RAM in the OP’s case is just such a requirement.
Two things,
a) that’s what I said, and
b) 4Gb isn’t cause for x64, more than 4Gb is.
Not sure about that. There will be more wastage… but double?
No, it’s not double, for a variety of reasons; not everything is 64-bit in an x64 system, for a start. I was intentionally simplifying for clarity (and still am).
Word size is 64bit, but a byte is still a byte no?
Well, yes, but you need to be careful here as to what importance you’re putting on ‘bytes’, data is held in words and it’s a long time since bytes and words were synonymous. Some data takes up more space in a 64-bit architecture, pointers are the classic example but again, it’s not quite that simple.