lets look at this from another perspective…they are light weight brake parts.
If I buy light weight or high performance brake parts for my car I expect them to not work quite the same as the OEM parts. Less performance when cold, increased noise/judder etc
A lightweight disc has more cut outs and less stiffness and going up to 203mm is asking for more trouble. Your brakes must just not get on with the 203mm rotors – either due to the design, pads, alignment or something. They may get on fine with other makes – especially the original manufacturers ones – but these obviously not. The price you pay for perfect performance on OEM ones is the weight and cost.
tbh if I was doing some riding that needed 203mm discs I wouldnt be using lightweight ones. If you do you are going to have to accept there will be a penalty to pay.
“Choose any 2: cheap, light, reliable”
More to the point, have you actually called/emailed SS to ask about it? They may not be aware of an incompatibility with your make of brake. There could also be an issue that your frame or fork is not rated for 203mm and is flexing.