I prefer the redidriva type in general use, I’ve put fairly hefty shelves up with them, but it depends on the cabinet design and where the fixings are as to how confident I’d be in them. For the shelves I was using those perforated uprights so there were fixing every few inches up the wall. A lot of kitchen cabinets only fix to the wall at the top two corners so theres not really any redundancy.
redidrivas are convenient to use but the plaster around them is getting chewed up as you screw them in so you putting your faith in fixing that is gripping broken plaster. Toggle type ones are passed through a clean drilled hole and braced against good plaster, a lot of the plaster has to give for them to pull out.