Just read this interesting factoid:
"Some 45% of new fathers said they did not take paternity leave, according to a 2009 report by the Equality and Human Rights Commission. Of those, 88% said they would have like to have done so and 49% said they could not afford it."
— http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-11086630
Blimey!
Is this one of the last great institutionalised gender inequalities or just they way it has to be?
Seems a real shame for those dads that miss out on those first two weeks. They'll never get them back. And you do have to wonder if it makes it harder to bond with the baby if you're back to work the next day like nothing happened.
I thought this was telling tho: "When my daughter Iris was born two-and-a-half years ago, paternity leave was £109 a week. There was no way I could afford take it – that wouldn't cover the mortgage, not without dipping into our savings.
For me, that is what savings are for, to make sure I can do things like that, but I guess those closer to the breadline may feel differently.
Thoughts?