Problems in the household, and feeling out of my depth as a Dad.
Our 7 year old boy was at after school club and felt he was being treated unfairly by an older kid so turned round to him and said ‘black people are the worse kind.’ Little bastard.
He has had a massive bollocking. He has had the xbox taken away and banned from Beavers and football for a fortnight. We have had the heart to heart chat about why that is wrong, about respect and about racism. He has written letters of apology.
This is totally uncharted territory for us though. I don’t think he is actually racist, but I don’t want to excuse his behavior. I don’t want to over react, under react, make too big a deal or brush it under the carpet.
Not sure whether to speak to the school (club is separate to school) or not.
Anyone else got anything to offer? Really reaching out for advice, suggestions, experience or anything else.
Ta