If a car is parked opposite my driveway I have to drive my van out of the driveway but before im on the road with the rear wheels I have to turn a sharp right which puts my rear wheels over the corner of a grass verge which is in front of her house between the front of her wall and the pavement
I know it isn’t, but humour me for a moment… what if it was a wall, and that was a corner of brick instead of grass? Would you then magically find a way to avoid hitting it or would you actually genuinely not be able to get off your drive? or would it just be more difficult rather than impossible?
It sounds like you’re blaming the car parked opposite your drive, now I get that you have no control over that and that it’s not your fault, but someone else doing something inconsiderate/bad doesn’t then give you the right to do something else inconsiderate/bad does it?
Maybe, just maybe you can use this…if you can get her to realise that you only do this when forced to (have a moan with her!), maybe you can get her onside and to redirect her rage at the people causing you difficulty, you can then have a shared enemy to moan about instead of her moaning at you 😉