Ok ernie, so what is
is foremost on your mind?
As Mungechick has alreay pointed out (should you have missed and/or ignored this point) Trimix initially made a comment to his wife about the person's choice of food, which the person overheard and responded to. Then a conversation took place, amicably as far as I can make out. Which you choose to characterise as 'loud and spontaneous'.
I'm also interested by yours' and others' assumptions that the 'southern african' upbringing mentioned by Trimix somehow equates to South African. As I'm sure you're aware, there are 15 countries in the Southern African Development Community - which is one measure to catagorise 'southern Africa'. I don't know off-hand what the combined population of those countries is but (going back to your post) your sweeping statement that:
ernie_lynch - MemberI was brought up in southern Africa ......
Well I guess that might go a long way in explaining the self-confessed 'self-righteousness'.
and subsequent assumption is analagous to claiming some type of standard behaviour and common mindset amongst all northern european inhabitants - all french, german, dutch, belgium, polish citizens for example. Happy to stand by that assumption?
Anyhow, go up to the Chilterns sometime and ride with Trimix - surely you must have to drive anyway out of Croydon to ride? Must be only an hour and a half from That There London to the Chilterns - where else to mtb do you reach in much less time than that?

