I gather you’ve never been to Eastern Europe Cougar? They regard asking for the veggie option in a restaurant as equivalent to asking if you can bugger their mothers in front of them
<nods> in a way we’re lucky; the UK is quite forward-thinking these days in terms of the acceptance / awareness of vegetarianism. Shop-bought food is well labelled, and many restaurants do get it right. Plenty don’t, though.
I remember once staying at a B&B, came down for breakfast and before I could say anything I got a full English stuck under my nose. I went, er, sorry, no thanks, and the owner reacted like I’d just wiped my nob on the curtains.
I’m going out for dinner tomorrow, and the menu online is a “sample” menu where the one veggie dish they list is something I can’t eat. Maybe I should ask if their mother is in instead.