Great to hear!
This all sounds close to home! Been having issues for a long time now but worsened by the fact I quit my job and the next job didn't materialise (long story).
Now sorted but on a huge pay cut. It's "all my fault" and pretty much everything negative is attributable to me. I know it'll work out in a year or so, so not so stressed.
Lots of rows, in particular she speaks I'll of me in front of the children which I think is inexcusable. I wouldn't dream of doing that.
Life is short, I love my kids but I really wonder whether it's doing any good me being there.
Any positive effort I make is ridiculed. My heart sinks as I walk up to the door as I know it'll be instantaneous accusations of being a failure! I know it's all b@llocks but the rage she throws this stuff at me with is difficult to counter.
Just keeping on trying to reassure her and do the 'right thing' however there is only so long you can do it for. Done counselling etc, think the lady felt sorry for me!!