Have a mate, enjoyed life, thought everything was good, not a worry in the world.
Whilst working away his wife was cheating on him. He found out, cue crying and apologies etc etc etc – they stayed together
Months go by, he catches her again with the same bloke – cue crying and aplogies again, he should have been stronger and walked but didn’t.
For last 6 months there not been any issues – but even though he still loves her, he feels like that special connection they once had has gone – he also feels pretty worthless.
He goes out most weekends with a pretty large group of friends, his wife, her friends, friend of friends, people duck in and out etc.
Like most men, he’ll look at other women and admire their form and then not give it another thought – its not like he’d ever cheat, because one, he knows the pain it causes and two, he’s just not that sort of person.
Thats the background – heres his problem:
Theres a girl in the group, a friend of a friend sort of thing. Few weeks ago on a night out, he got talking to her…..turns out shes pretty awesome.
Since then he’s been chatting to her a bit via internet and seem to have lots to chat about (both he and she just have general chit chat nothing more). He feels like some sort of school kid with a crush and thinks about her a lot……..but even though he’s not mentioned these feelings to anyone, he feels VERY guilty about it.
How does he stop these feelings and get back to the mundane normal life?