I’ve often had hand manicures since at a young age my grandmother commented on how nice my nails were, and then as a young lad I dated the nail tech that did people such a Liz Taylor.
The guys that think it’s effeminate or ‘gay’ to pamper oneself have obviously never studied a:nature, or b: history, and probably don’t wash or change their underwear regularly, and probably have to think lots of other men are ‘gay’ to reinforce their own dubious sexuality. Oh, and most weekends I’m up to my arms in crap mending cars/bikes/motorbikes/guns, fishing, gardening, DIYing etc. so I’m certainly not averse to getting stuck in.
I also pluck stray hairs from my eyebrows!