My aunt, 91, is on her last legs. Not ill, just given up eating and says her body is failing.
I'm not especially close with her or her family but get on fine on the occasions we meet up (last time for her husband's funeral 2 years ago), she's too far away to visit. She's a lovely kind woman of whom I have happy memories.
For whatever reason I feel fairly awkward around death and never know quite what to do, but I'd like to do something, probably just write a letter (without saying "sorry you're dying", or "what a great life you've had" etc) - seem reasonable?