What on earth are you girls carting around? Is it all your male cosmetics?
I have used a man bag bag in the past – it was a small clutch bag of the type often seen in Germany or Italy. Or carried by the man from the Pru. Big enough to empty my pockets into, not to carry the kitchen sink.
The old Karrimor courier bag I use for work weighs about the same as the kitchen sink!
The amount of stuff it has stuffed into it looks pointless, but is often needed, like today when a colleague suddenly needed an Allen key for a piece of machinery, and I could offer him a choice of three multitools.
There’s also a zip case with various USB connectors, phone connectors, portable battery chargers, etc.
Plus pens, zip-ties…
I’ve got three courier bags, a small Polaris one I bought at the Bike Show years ago, which I use when I’m out walking, to carry my binoculars, camera, waterproof/windproof, travel flask, water, etc, my work Karrimor, and a large Timbuctoo that’s my weekend/days out back.
Not posh or stylish like the OP’s rather tasty satchel, but I couldn’t be without them, much easier to access than a rucksack.
If I did a lot of travelling, that satchel would be an ideal carry-on bag.