Yep I can see why and I would stick to my original post that there is most likely an outside influence.
If you can live with accepting the fact that you agreed to be being unreasonable then it will immediately let you move on with your life. If you fight it then you may find yourself becoming, angry bitter and damaging yourself with second guessing.
I know you present your side of the story but I remeber other threads you posted and to me the way you have been treated is on the south side of poor. If your marriage is not reconcilable then you need to make sure you get from it what you want - freedom, money, your ego intact - whatever your requirements are. Quite honestly I'd just say "Yeah ok" then send her a lovely letter that states how you actually feel, she might read it, she might burn it who knows but I always think that it is better to have said it than not. If you can recover any $ from the situation then you need to see a solicitor.
I'm not going to wish you luck because it isn't luck you need, what you need is purpose and desire to push on and make your life better. You have clearly sacrificed a number of your desires to try and build that relationship and now you can reset yourself and achieve your goals. Feel free to email me if you want to unload.
Kia Kaha.
