Absolutely, crankboy, my thoughts exactly. On the one hand, an open and honest conversation to bring out into the open the actions of the compassionate in order to protect them.
On the other hand, that conversation may not go the way that you and I would hope once the Daily Mail et al get their nasty teeth into it. Not to mention the Church; don’t get me started…
Part of me thinks it’s safer to keep this stuff in the shadows, but that way it’s patchy and inconsistent. For every experience of compassion such as yours, there are several stories of horrible indeterminable suffering, due to doctors with differing moral views/lacking the bravery to do the right thing*
*delete depending on how charitable you are feeling…