Has this always happened? Is it a plastic window? How old are they?
The window system sounds like it is getting overwhelmed by the amount of water it has to deal with and the gasket between the frame and sash isn’t as good as it could be, hence water ingress. Any water that hits this gasket should travel along the gasket and drain out of the bottom of the window and not through the gasket. Check to make sure the frame and sash firmly compress the gasket. If it doesn’t make sure the frame isn’t in wind ie out of plumb. If the frame is in wind you could try to adjust the sash or try to source a bigger gasket. You could try to fit a small drip to the top of the window to help deflect the water away from the window.
HTH.