May get a lot of hate here but used to dabble in collections of goods and money owed for the door firm I used to work for totally legal and above board mind. so had a number to call to find the chaps new address and find him.
If it was a woman or weedy bloke (which he wasn’t) there’s the legal route via claims or contact the old bill and take them to court.
I felt terrible as id put my pal onto him and arranged the sale so I had to help out.
When you get scammed a few times it makes you cautious. Yes there’s some top people on this page but again your personal circumstances can change in a heartbeat and makes you do daft things.
I always pay goods so both parties covered and its worth the extra few quid to for the protection there’s some lads who started selling small items and then were selling a whole retro collection gifted… They build up a good rep purely to scam.