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  • Irresponsible parent?
  • matt_outandabout
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    Please hide this thread, I have three boys who will be driving over the next 2-5 years. 🙁

    stilltortoise
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    Irresponsible? Possibly, possibly not. This kid could have been driving go karts from the age of 5, have more experience of handling cars than most of the people on this forum and could have been unlucky on the day. Alternatively, he may only have been driving for a matter of months and had a complete error of judgement taking a car out that could get him into a lot of trouble, very quickly.

    Saying the car doesn’t matter is nonsense. I know from bitter experience.

    dazh
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    Of course it’s irresponsible. I could barely control my dad’s 1.4 nissan sunny when I passed my test, let alone something with a proper engine in it.

    A lad in my year in 6th form was given a golf GTI by his proud dad on his 18th. A month later he killed a pensioner on a zebra crossing and his girlfriend who was unfortunately in the passenger seat when the pensioner came through the windscreen. He spent 5 years inside for death by dangerous driving. They should have put his dad inside too.

    teamhurtmore
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    About as irresponsible as giving same person a dodgy old car with weak tyre treads, dodgy breaks etc…they both can kill/do damage.

    Edukator
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    If the authorities wish to install a GPS device that prevents my car doing more than the speed limit I’ll happily pay for the privilege. You don’t buy a Boxter if you intend to respect the Highway code all the time.

    It’s political suicide to get serious about making cars properly safe which really means making them slower. Enough people want to drive dangerously for road safety to be a vote loser. Then there are the motor lobbies putting pressure on politicians the world over.

    Drac
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    At 19 whats it to do with the parent- the driver is an adult. Or was it the parents car?

    stilltortoise
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    You don’t need to break the speed limit to get in trouble in a car like a Boxster.

    leffeboy
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    At 19 whats it to do with the parent- the driver is an adult

    albeit an adult who is unlikely to be able to afford a boxter and more likely to go through a series of lower powered cars first

    Is the answer I think you were looking for

    Sundayjumper
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    Oh, and one more story, from my mate who’s a teacher.

    16yo lad, parents divorced, lived with Mum, who forbade him from having a scooter. Dad, to spite Mum, bought lad a scooter. Lad fell off scooter & died.

    Awkward.

    Drac
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    albeit an adult who is unlikely to be able to afford a boxter and more likely to go through a series of lower powered cars first

    They can be bought for a few thousand. At 19 he may well be living at home so have spare income.

    Edukator
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    You don’t need to break the speed limit to get in trouble in a car like a Boxster.

    Perhaps not, but it would be a lot harder in a Boxter that suddenly went quiet and stopped accelerating at 30 mph in town. Limiting trucks has cut accidents both tin number and severity, I’m absolutely certain limiting cars would do too.

    makecoldplayhistory
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    Edukator – but political suicide, as someone said.

    deker
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    Depends on the kid and his history, at 19 I had access to lots of peoples cars as an apprentice mechanic, I was legally allowed to take any car I’d worked on for post work road tests (including pre delivery inspections of brand new cars), while most of the cars where run of the mill family things every now and then it was something nice, occasional Cosworth (we were a Ford dealer), at times a local businessman’s Aston (old thing but nice) and a few Porsches (usually trade ins).

    Has anyone actually proved that the accident was anything to do with the age or experience of the driver?

    teamhurtmore
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    Even being broadly libertarian, I would be in favour of really tight speed controls well below current limits – including limiters.

    deker
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    Edukator – Reformed Troll

    If the authorities wish to install a GPS device that prevents my car doing more than the speed limit I’ll happily pay for the privilege. You don’t buy a Boxter if you intend to respect the Highway code all the time.

    God I hope this never happens, my current car has far more power than a Boxster and you know, I didn’t buy it for the speed, I bought it because I liked it and because I can do thousands of miles in comfort and if I do want to open in it up while in Europe I can. It does have an optional speed limiter (as well as the manual right foot one) but I only remember using that when in temporary speed restrictions (so I don’t get carried away and creep back up to 70).

    But I will admit current cars make it much easier to speed, it took something special to make a mk2 Escort break the NSL in the 80’s 😀

    johndoh
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    You don’t need to break the speed limit to get in trouble in a car like a Boxster.
    FTFY

    tjagain
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    Me – Id like to see a huge expansion in road safety enforcement with a much higher risk of getting caught. Self funding too from the fines which would be much bigger and more punitive than they are now.

    Mandatory retesting every 5 years.

    CaptainFlashheart
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    Speeds that would make your eyes bleed, eh, TJ?

    😉

    canopy
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    You don’t need to break the speed limit to get in trouble in a car like a Boxster.
    FTFY

    True story. RWD drive car, lots of ice out there, not hard at all.

    Town I grew up in (Taunton) installed cobbled roads through the centre bit for some mock retro reason. There’ve been a few instances of RWD cars, including Porsches and BMWs getting wrapped around lampposts in the early hours, and yet more of cyclists under lorries etc.. as the cobbles make stopping normal vehicles, and navigation by other things difficult…

    but it looks pretty, and that’s what matters most..

    jimjam
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    What spec Boxster was it? Some of them are pretty lukewarm.

    tjagain
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    Absolutely CFH. MY point always was don’t bleat about getting caught. Can’t do the time don’t do the crime?

    I would be quite happy to see much more enforcement like zero tolerance. Roads would soon be nice and quiet as most drivers would either have to change their behaviour or be banned within months

    Greybeard
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    Why is everyone assuming the young driver was male? The OP (in a second post) wrote “Gender is irrelevant” – which I took to be in response to the assumption in the early posts that the driver was male, and a hint that the driver may have been female. (Isn’t English odd – I could have written that much more easily with a gender neutral pronoun, other than ‘it’.)

    stilltortoise
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    GPS tracking, zero-tolerance of speeding, speed limiters set at the prevailing speed limit of the road. NONE of that that is going to help someone who finds themselves in difficulty without the driving skills to get themselves out of difficulty.

    I learnt the hard way that a lightweight, mid-engined RWD car – driven no faster than my previous FWD family hatchback and driven under the speed limit – can have you in a dry stone wall effortlessly.

    jam-bo
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    Why is everyone assuming the young driver was male?

    because it mostly likely was?

    Males make up a considerably higher proportion of young car driver fatalities and KSI casualties. Around three quarters of all young car driver deaths are male. However, the split for slightly injured casualties is even. This suggests that young female drivers are just as likely to be involved in an accident as young male drivers, but young male drivers are more likely to be seriously injured or killed, possibly as a result of being in a higher speed
    collision.

    https://www.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/448039/young-car-drivers-2013-data.pdf

    P-Jay
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    Pigface – Member

    Am I being unreasonable in thinking letting a inexperienced 19yr old driver loose in a Boxter is irresponsible? Result car destroyed and passenger a trip to A+E.

    Driver showing off put it into a tree, thank god for airbags and good design.

    I personally wouldn’t allow my eldest to drive a car like that at 19, I assume by the tone of “let loose” they facilitated it somehow. Everyone one is different. I know some very level headed, very smart 19 year olds who I’d feel confident they wouldn’t do something stupid, but they’re very exceptional – my eldest isn’t like that, not at the moment anyway, he’s very sure of himself and often very wrong about the things he’s very certain of.

    My first car was a Golf Gti 16v, it was more car than a stupid new driver should be given, I genuinely thought I was a BRILLAINT driver.

    My Parents didn’t have much say in it though, I was 20, I lived away from home and I paid for it myself. They didn’t allow it, but I wasn’t seeking permission. I span it twice driving like a dick in less than ideal conditions, I missed crashing it more by luck than judgment. It actually genuinely made me a good driver in the end, the lack of ABS and ESP meant I learned how to brake a steer properly and the rock hard suspension (non-standard of course) and usually crap, never matching and barely legal depth tyres meant I learned to look ahead and read the road surface, but it was a **** stupid way to learn.

    A Boxster, even a very early one isn’t like my old Golf, not unless it’s a heap anyway. It will be very easy to make go fast, but quite docile at the same time, unless you’re stupid enough at 19 to think you should turn off the ESP and “get it sideways” on the road.

    mrmonkfinger
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    My first car was an MR2. I bought it. I insured it. It was nevertheless not a clever choice, as I discovered later, when facing the wrong way on a dual carriageway having previously been facing the right way. Insurance went to a ridiculous quote, I sold it, I grew up a bit, fortunately without wiping anything or anyone out.

    Giving a similarly aged lad the keys to a Boxter seems, unless they are an exceptionally level headed individual, somewhat daft and irresponsible.

    Sundayjumper
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    …speed limiters set at the prevailing speed limit of the road.

    God no. People will just drive around with their foot wedged to the floor the whole time, because that’s the “correct” speed.

    stilltortoise
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    More importantly, it’s a BoxSter.

    Edukator
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    It’s a Boxter as in Porche.

    nickewen
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    Even a relatively lukewarm old Boxster is still going to have what 230bhp through the rear wheels? If it’s a newish ‘S’ then it’ll be north of 300. Even the former is a decent amount in a mid-engined sports car.. I’d more than likely have binned one of them at 19. I had a little 1300cc 60bhp fiesta at that age and exploring the limits of grip happened at relatively low speed with the result being understeer which IMO is more easily (naturally?) controlled than oversteer. If the parents facilitated it then I think it’s a poor call tossing them the keys.. That’s my pennys wath anyway.

    Pigface
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    Greybeard has it, driver was a girl, didn’t want to say as it could be perceived as deregotory.

    CountZero
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    Just changes which tree they hit, not whether they hit a tree.

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    CountZero
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    Getting rid of the metaphors, whilst you can kill yourself and others at 50mph, you’re more likely to do so at 150mph and if the temptation’s there, younger kids are more likely to try it.

    Yet I’m pretty sure the greater majority of fatal accidents take place at or below posted speed limits.
    After a fatal RTA on a fairly new bypass, the limit was dropped from 60 to 50, and roundabouts put at the various joining roads; the accident happened because a mother taking her kids to school turned around to remonstrate with them, drifted across the carriageway into the front of an oncoming truck.
    Neither vehicle was doing more than thirty mph, half the posted limit at the time.
    Trucks are limited, but look at the carnage they cause when they run into a line of slow or stationary traffic.
    I wonder if those advocating the use of speed limiters have ever driven a vehicle with one fitted; it means you get long lines of slow moving vehicles clogging up two lanes of a three-lane carriageway because it takes miles for one vehicle to pass another, a van that’s limited to 70 can only do 68. Allowing higher speeds, and I would happily see an upper limit of 80 on motorways, lets traffic spread itself out much more, because there’s likely to be a difference of thirty or more mph between slow and fast traffic, with limiters, there’s going to be three mph at most

    Drac
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    Well you’re one case hasn’t convinced me.

    anagallis_arvensis
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    Yet I’m pretty sure the greater majority of fatal accidents take place at or below posted speed limits.

    Really? Is this just a feeling or based on data?

    butcher
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    is the car relevant?

    i drove like a **** in a nova when I was that age.

    I’d say yes it is. Very much so.

    It’s not just the speeds you’re able to reach – most cars will get you somewhere near 100mph these days, I’m sure. Though the ability to get up to speed quickly is a factor, as is the pure thrill of it.

    In a really powerful car though, it’s how the car handles that power. Put your foot down going into a bend and you’re liable to come out of it going backwards. That generally doesn’t happen in a Nova – you just emerge from the other side doing 2 or 3mph more. I had a car that would spin the rear wheels at 70mph in the wet on a straight road. It would be easy to overcook it with something as simple as pulling out of junction. There’s plenty of videos on Youtube to prove it. Again, rarely happens in a Nova. Speed is a small part of it. You can quite easily crash a fast car before you’ve reached 30mph.

    Northwind
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    anagallis_arvensis – Member

    Really? Is this just a feeling or based on data?

    According to ROSPA, 282 people died in road accidents where someone was exceeding the speed limit, in 2014. I can’t find a fatality figure for 2014 but in 2013 it was 1700.

    cynic-al
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    i think its far more likely at the age of 19 that your going to be driving a shit car past the edge of its abilities and yours.

    I suspect he learnt in a normal car, then got the keys to the rwd mid engine Porsche, probably thinking it had no limits.

    He probably knew the limits of his mum’s hatchback

    tpbiker
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    As someone who started driving a 60bhp diesel hatch, and now owns a boxter, i can absolutely gaurantee that the car will make a difference.

    An inexperianced driver ragging a 300 bhp rwd car round a corner is never going to end well, especially if its even slightly greasy. Its no different than suggesting an inexperianced biker should get himself a 1000cc sportsbike.

    Yes you can crash in an old fiesta, but you are more likely to do it in a performance car if you don’t treat it with respect.

    aracer
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    When I was 19 or 20 I spun my 1.3 Astra into an armco barrier and knackered the front suspension when I understeered it into a kerb (separate incidents – I didn’t learn). I’d have probably had a far bigger smash if I’d had a Boxster – glad I only had a 1.3 Astra.

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