Very hairy throwback here, got very paranoid about it as a lad and would avoid swimming, I’d keep my t-shirt on at the beach etc….
Started getting my back and shoulders waxed in my late 20s (which coincided nicely with gym results appearing) and never looked back re. female attention, now obviously some of that will be increased confidence but some of it is the look….muscular bloke, confident in own skin and proudly wearing hairy chest and legs seemed to bring out something primal in the ladies, similar to the way most blokes prefer the natural curves of women to the skeletal catwalk model shape.
To keep things from looking silly with a bare back, shoulders and arms i trim with scissors down below but shaving or waxing!?….no way, having the less sensitive bits done is bad enough!