said the wife today out of the blue...
bit of a bombshell that really, been together 12 years through bad times, and tbh other bad times.
its been not the usual marriage, her being poorly me starting to be her carer about 2 years ago, we are early 30s.
her health is picking up, but we have grown apart, we both dont feel the same as we did.
I spose it had to come from her, but it was a bit of a shock tbh.
although the signs were there over the last month, one conversation sticks in my mind "so if something were to happen to you it might be an idea for you to tell me how to run all the finances just in case"
feel very wierd, and didnt blubber at all, not even a moist eye, until i walked back in after a day of wandering around in a daze and the dogs jumped on me.
sitting in the spare room waiting for her mother in law to leave so talks can recomense.