Mboy, if you weren't so 'sensitive' i'd suggest you pair have a bit of fun and don't take it too seriously. I get the impression that's not your style, so walk away.
Hahaha. I may have overplayed the sensitive thing a touch to be fair. I'm not a player like some people, but I'm also not averse to just having a bit of fun. Just think I actually quite like this girl, and would grow to like her more the more time I spent with her.
Anyway... No Dice. At least not right now anyway... Messaged her earlier asking if she fancies MIB3 or Prometheus at the cinema at any point in the next week or so, response came that she was sorry, she's really busy and she's got too many personal issues she feels she needs to sort out before anything were to happen. Fair enough, I can deal with that. Hope for her sake she actually does sort out her "personal issues" (that being this married man) cos clearly they're really affecting her.
By the way, spoke to my housemate briefly about her tonight. I asked her if she knew much about her privately (they are very good mates) and she said that the girl hasn't been involved with any blokes since splitting from her ex more than 2 years ago when he really screwed her over, and I don't think she really trusts men any more... Understandable, especially given the married bloke stringing her along too, but doesn't help me though other than understanding her a bit more. Also shows just how much she doesn't share with any of her friends by all accounts!
C'est la vie. Sent her a final message back saying I hope she gets things sorted, she knows how to get hold of me if she wants to...