Now I can stop worrying about money for 5 minutes, I've started to worry about women again! Grrr... Anyway...
Have been purposefully steering clear of women a little bit last 12 months or so for a couple of reasons, chiefly that my ex hurt me in a big way and I'm not ready for that again. Anyway... Have obviously met a few girls in that time, but very recently have met someone and we hit it off almost straight away.
Long story short, she's very up front and honest, lets me know straight away she likes me quite a bit. Spent a while chatting to her, getting to know her a bit first, turns out she's definitely right up my street. She's as mad as a box of frogs (pre-requisite for me), evil sense of humour, very fit/active, pretty easy on the eye and errr... Well... She was out with a big group of mates for her birthday, but she spent most of the evening chatting to me.
Met up on yesterday for a coffee, and pretty much straight away she fires a curve ball... She says to me "I've got to let you know, whilst I do like you, you're up against a few things going on in my life right now"... OK, no problems. She's busy with work, sport etc. that's all good. But then she adds (something she's not told any one of her mates) she's in love with a married man, who has been "threatening to leave his wife for the last 10 months"... :facepalm:
So yeah... How do I deal with that one? I presume telling her she's fallen for the oldest trick in the book, and belittling her isn't the done thing... Do I just need to make myself utterly irresistible so she forgets him, or just hang back and leave her tonnes of space, just be there in case she ever does see sense? Bit difficult you see, cos I already know in my head she's worthy of the effort (I know quickly on these things), and I could definitely fall for her in a big way... Or should I just cut contact altogether?