Phones with a Lightning connection are obviously designed for mobile devices, i.e. iPhones. A MacBook isn’t really a mobile device as most people would understand it.
My solution is a pair of MeeAudio Pinnacle P1 headphones with a Shure Lightning cable that fits ‘phones that use the CCMX connection; that way I can just swap between the two cables the phones come with, 3.5mm with and without mic and remote, and the Lightning cable with mic and remote,
Not a cheap option, the Shure cable is £89, and according to the boss of MeeAudio, just not possible to make any cheaper, but it’ll also fit the cheaper MeeAudio M6Pro, which are £36, half what Shure SE215’s cost, and if my experience with Shure ‘phones is anything to go by, probably more reliable.