I've found out that someone I really care about is an addict. I've had my suspicions for a long time on and off about the person concerned but have never had anything to confirm them.
Last saw him around Christmas and he had lost several stone, was almost falling asleep all the time and looked like poop.
I've now found that he has been taking heroin on and off for about 2 decades! Now both him and his girlfriend (they've been together for about 18 years) are now taking crack and have blown every penny they have and owe a dealer £££'s. He's just about holding down his job but it seems unlikely that will last much longer.
I can't see him ever kicking it while they are together as a couple and also can't see him leaving her to turn his life around.
Are there any answers, great gems of advice or is it a lost cause? I'm properly torn up and simply have no idea what to do.