I generally work ~38-45 hours (only contracted to 36.5 but we do acrue TOIL so I can easily have an extra day off each month) my weekly commuting probably comes out at about 10 hours so I spend ~50-55 hours a week either at work or traveling for work, but get more long weekends to spend with my family.
My missus works part time (Or will do when her current stint on maternity leave is up), I like being home to say goodnight to the Kids and spend time with my wife (That is why I married Her).
Its better than it was at my previous employer, less of a culture of presentism and an acceptance that if you’ve done your hours by Friday lunch time and there’s nothing major on then you’re well within your rights to head off…
But Yep I’d be happy with enough money for us to live on and more free time to spend with my Kids…