Yep neither side comes out of this well.
It's Israel that comes out badly. With every year that passes Israel has less friends in the world as a direct result of their behaviour.
A classic example of how Israel's behaviour influences people's attitude towards it is the case of prominent British Jew Gerald Kaufman. Gerald Kaufman was once a very staunch supporter of Israel but as a direct result of Israel's behaviour over many decades Kaufman's attitude slowly changed to the point where today he is one of Israel's most outspoken critic in Britain.
I know that Israel doesn't care what the world thinks as long as US support remains reliable, but the US is in the process of long decline as Britain was a 100 years ago, eventually they will find that their only friend will no longer be able to help them.
And btw US public opinion is nowhere as supportive of Israel as the US government is.