Ok here’s the situation, I recently moved into amvery nice little house, sharing with the owner. She’s 27, divorced, seemed very nice got a couple of cats and was happy about accomodating my bikes in the house. Her mum was here when I came to view the place. Everything seemed fine. A couple of weeks after I moved in and no problems.
Last weekend she was meant to go out with a friend on Friday. He called off & she ended up going round to her brother’s and spending the night there, supposedly drinking with him & his freinds. That is when it all started. It turns out that she has a major problem with alcohol. She is rapidly becoming, if she isn’t there already, an alcoholic. Her mum has been round a couple of times since she realised she had been drinking and we have talked. She thought the problem started in the summer (there were various family disaters, divorces, deaths, etc..), but while we were talking tonight she now thinks it may have been gong on for a few years. They thought she was over the problem which arose innthe summer and has bee seeng a counsellor.
Without me knowing and since Monday she had drunk my tequilla, triple sec (I like the ocasional margarita), a third of a bottle of vodka, 3/4 of a bottle of limoncello (40th birthday present from Italy) and nearly 2 bottles of gin (1 of which was sloe gin). I found out about all but the sloe gin last night, tonight I found out that she had been in my room during the day and that was when she took the sloe gin. Thankfully she hasn’t touched my whiskey!! Her mum is horrified, and has been incredibly apologetic towards me. As I have pointed out it is not her that should be apologising.
I should point out that although I have/had quite a few bottle of spirits, quite a few of them Are more that 2 years old. I don’t drink a lot. A heavy night for me is 2 bottles of beer!!
We have removed all the alchohol from the house, her mum currently has my collection in her car. I am being a reasonable as I can, but as I am sure you can appreciate I am pretty angry and somewhat uneasy about living here!!
Question is, would I be being unreasonable and selfish if I gave my notice and got out asap??