So... Mrs P is now 4 and a bit months up the duff, due date is in August, happy days! 
Anyhoo, she's had a crap first 4 months, no morning sickness or nausea, but real issues with being 'blocked up' down below (she suffers from IBS at the best of times, so I don't think pregnancy is helping this at all!). She's also had pretty much a continuous cold since November and zero energy, so she hasn't been able to go to the gym at all (normally goes 2-3 times a week at least, pre-preggers), so that's not helping either... in addition to this, she's stressing about work, the prospect of maybe moving back home (Australia) and god knows what else, so she's not sleeping well either 
it's got to the point now that she's really depressed and miserable and sick and tired of everyone saying 'oh, that's alright dear, it's just because you're pregnant..."
I really want to help, giving lots of hugs and trying to be positive myself, but this doesn't seem to be helping, if anything it's making it worse...
So... what can I do? Any advice from those who've been through this ('cause it's such a rare thing, pregnancy) would be appreciated, men & women of STW, I call for your internet knowledge!
This was a 'very good thing' in his eyes.
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