I’ve had enough Myers Briggs assessments through work to understand where I sit on the (supposed) introvert/extrovert scale.
I also know that my desire for company or solitude varies down to the activity and other factors.
So, although I’ve been very happy in my relationship for the last 21 years and with our daughter, there are times when I do just want to be left alone.
I work best in a team – and certainly think best when kicking ideas around with others – but there are plenty of times when I’m happy to crack on by myself and don’t want the hindrance of others. Sadly when you’re leading others that can be a challenge…!
When I rode bikes, I loved being in a club and the camaraderie of club rides or racing together. But outside training rides, I came to prefer to ride alone. The solitude was always very calming.
A solo pizza and a couple of pub stop-offs sounds as ideal as a meal with friends and family.