my house is terraced so there would be no separate access for the annexe. We are fine that the access would be through our house. The plan was to use our gas, elec and water supply but have a separate boiler. Didnt realise about council tax. I thought that as it wasn’t a separate address it wouldnt change. Will look at that though. It will not be done as an extension though
Let me know if you want any advice about gas, as I work in the industry – whereabout in the country is the house?
Not related to the technicalities of the build etc but more the practical sure of things.
I appreciate its your father and this is not meant to be offensive or anything but have you thought about the long term? We have very recently been in a similar position with the MiL but in the end my wife felt that she could not risk end up being her mums full time career of it came to that.
Even if she was in health the thought of sharing space for what could be another 10-20 years was not something we could manage. Yes she would have her own accommodation etc but how often would she end up in our house for the evening? How reliant on its would she become for shopping, cooking, general day to day living that she would manage perfectly well if she were not with us.
It may sound a bit selfish (it may even be a bit selfish) but if you haven’t thought about it/spoken about it you should.
dannybgoode I see your point, but you could look at it the other way too. My parents have already decided that when the time comes (probably not that far away now unfortunately) that my mum’s mum cannot look after herself, their dining room is getting converted into an extra room for her. This is due to the way that my dad’s mum was cared for in hospital and, basically, left to die and we still don’t think she saw a doctor in months. Of course, when the time arrives it means me and my siblings will have to do the same for them.