Yer jacket needs a wash first. I’ve been through this and took advice from a local company that deals with this type of thing.
You’ll need something like Tech Wash to do this. Don’t use anything you can buy in the supermarket. It’ll make things worse. Clean out the detergent drawer in the washing machine and then put it on a rinse cycle to get rid of any detergent residue. Wash the jacket according to the instructions and then follow this by applying the re-proofing. I used the Nikwax spray on proofing and did my walking Goretex and cycling jacket together. I tried the wash in proofing but I found it not to be as effective as the spray.
The difference before and after was obvious as the water beads up and slides straight off. The proofing that dripped off onto the patio proofed that too leaving lots of little waterproof dots 😀
There’s probably some good info on Youtube.