If only we had verbal IQs above 130! The pratt of the day award goes to your good self.
Sorry, you’re probably not a misogynist badnewz. I don’t agree with a lot of what you say but you’re a reasoned chap, it’s just that it’s like saying all men are wife beaters. Which they aren’t, just like the fact that not all women are overly emotional fickle crazies, just some of them.
I tend to find that lots of people choose mirror images of themselves in partners, crazy people are drawn to other crazy people.
I just tend to sigh when people start complaining about serious character flaws in their partners as they usually need to take a look at themselves as well. For example, I have a dear friend of mine from my teens, a girl, who is actually a bit bonkers. She has BPD and of course she’s going out with a man who is bipolar and they both wind each other up, start wondering why they are so down and think that the other half is representative of the other gender.
I just end up banging my head on the wall, but she’s been a good friend so I put up with it.