Sorry but I just don’t get this…. This issue with your other half having a problem with what you do for fun…
If you love the lass/woman/girl you are with/married to then there shouldn’t be any issue.
If she loves you and you love her where’s the problem – unless of course you put something as shallow as your “job/lifestyle/mates” before your own future. It sounds to me like certain posters are working in the “me and my fun, my job, my family” in that order and wondering why they are having issues.
Sorry but amongst the grown ups on this forum. If you love each other and don’t share the same interests then you should encourage the diversity, respect it and share what you have in common.
If there is still an issue then it’s is mag to grid…