I’m sorry – not my intent. But that’s what happens on a forum, rarely does it stick to exactly the question as posed. And I was answering, and then got diverted by the my own answer, about the point on P1 where someone suggested they say they’d been abroad for 10 years. My limited experience with HMRC is that if they sniff that it’s untrue then they will **** you over.
I was then answering chakaping about whether it’s better to get him back into the system from now, or have him continuing to avoid. And I stick by my answer that actually neither is correct. If it was purely a binary question, then yes, start from now is clearly the better answer to me but suspect that the taxman will want some answers too.
You want solutions – I’d come clean, and see what arrangement can be made. Painful as it might be, at least she’s sorted then and won’t live in fear that the taxman might suddenly say ‘Hang on?’