Just got back from visiting my stepson, hes struggling.
Job, five days a week, check
Own place, mortgaged, check
Income vs Outgoings, no extra debts (yet)
Friends, hmm check, all attached tho*
The problem, if he doesnt change direction soon he is looking at alcholism, even if functioning for a while, he drives for a living so his job and house are right in the mix.
At present he lives for the weekend, Sunday is generally spent in bed, Monday-Thursday anything upto four cans/bottles (lager) Friday finish work and hit it. A conservative estimate is 25pints, minimal sleep and finally crashing back home sometime sunday morning.
*His behaviour during the binge is pretty bad, as expected for the pace of drinking, to the point friends are dropping by the wayside
He (says he) has nothing else to do. No hobbys, limited time/money(!) particularly during the week.
What can/do you do that acceptably uses up free time, costs next to nothing and doesnt (have to) involve drinking/pubs/clubs.
Only thing that springs to mind so far, sign him up for a marathon
Over to the STW mind.