It took me 2 years and about 9 bikes to find my ideal ride (Turner 5 spot). It transformed me as a rider and what I could reasonably expect to get out of my bike. A lot of that may be the fit of the bike. Its a 19″ and I think I was always trying to squeeze my body into an 18″!
Then I sold the frame and upgraded it to an RFX and its transformed my way of thinking even more!
Thats what makes this forum such a good place as even if you are a little bit savvy you can chop and change frames / bikes for little or no money and really experience different things.
life is all about experience in my book!