Oh Doctors listen?!?! No way never, not even once. Doesn’t matter on the gender, they’re not listening types, they like a puzzle you see. They ask you the problem but they’ve switched off have way through and they’re busy trying to diagnose from other clues, they’re checking around your eyes for fatty deposits which might show signs of high cholesterol, they’re checking your nails for white marks etc etc.
What makes that worse is during their training they were told all about “bedside manner” and told they should ask about people’s welfare etc, unfortunately they don’t get told they have to listen – I hate it when they ask you something about your lifestyle, but half way through they switch off, or worse cut you off as if you’re wasting time, it’s infuriating! As they get more senior / specialised they get worse, until they get better, I’ve met a few Consultants in their late 50’s early 60’s they’ve risen to such a rarefied level of almost god like statue within the hospital that they’re free to glide from place to place whilst a small gaggle of juniors and ward sisters fuss about in their wake – they’re lovely to talk to, because they’ve finally learnt to pretend to be listening well.
I’ve got to visit the doctors fairly regularly to have prescriptions checked and other tests, I se a Nurse Practitioner now, she’s great – a pretty much perfect mix of Nurse and Doctor.