Modern, western life has been shaped at a fundamental level by the motor car
That’s absolutely true, but it’s not the fault of the car – it’s the fault of us who use them. We did not realise what we were doing to our lives. People have always needed to move around. The car is just better at it than many systems. A lot of things have been made possible because of the car.
selfishness, apathy, acquisitiveness, aggression, indifference
You make a good point, but I believe that people have always had those attributes, and car usage behaviour is simply another symptom. Technology gives us freedoms and enables us to express ourselves, for better or worse. But it’s not the fault of the technology, on the whole.
Cars are neutral to me. There are choked angry commutes, but there are also family road trips and glorious drives through the countryside. There are angry commutes by car and angry commutes by train. 100 years ago we’d have been commuting on foot, and probably having a nice stroll, but we’d have been walking the same streets our whole lives to the same factory and doing the same shit. And the town would have been smoky and dirty because the factory was right in the middle of it.