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  • Disability living seems like easy money
  • thestabiliser
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    The system is funked beyond belief. My mum just got a load of forms from an assessment of my now dead father stating that I can’t feed, dress, or bathe myself. Throughout his dementia , macular degeneration, cancer, diabetes, atrial fibrillation…..she never got a moments respite or any home care, when asking for assistance to get him to hospital in Manchester for an eye operation she was asked if she couldn’t just put him on the train. But OP i’d be fascinated to hear your take on the blacks and the pooftahs

    MrOvershoot
    Full Member

    Its OK join the tired club Cougar, I’ve been on “holiday” for 2 weeks and was looking forward to the M-i-L helping out with cooking and feeding for my wife.

    Only she slipped in their kitchen and shattered her leg (2 pints of blood lost plated & pinned + skin grafts) so have been caring for Wife F-i-L & M-i-l over the last 2 weeks.

    I feel your pain/anger as I was in a really bad place while filling in those forms. I don’t mind admitting I got my wife to bed and then came back downstairs and cried my eyes out

    Cougar
    Full Member

    Sorry dude, I totally hear you.

    The treatment of my father through a year in hospital and two in a care home is a whole other story, which I’m not going to embark on at midnight or I won’t sleep. Remind me tomorrow.

    theocb
    Free Member

    Some tough tales to hear. Keep on keeping on people.

    epicyclo
    Full Member

    The problem with all those “lucrative” disability allowances and gold-plated cars is very few people* are prepared to put the time and effort into qualifying for them.

    *With the exception of Red Bull and downhill riders.

    oldtimboiow
    Free Member

    For those genuine claimants I’ve total respect, you deserve all you can get out of the system, I just have seen this one unfolding over several years and I just don’t believe It is genuine. Probably was an internal whinge getting out through the filter that normally keeps it in. Still the Singletrack forum crew will Reset things and recalibrate things….cheers all 🙂 now where was that copy of the Daily Mail…..

    jamj1974
    Full Member

    Dad died after collapsing at a bus stop on his way to a hospital appointment. Had lupus, diabetes and heart failure. Apparently ‘qualified’ for only lowest level of DLA – right at end of life. Not sick enough…

    So no, I’m not in support of tougher criteria of benefit and yes, yes I’m **** bitter even 5 years later.

    Drac
    Full Member

    Bloody hell Overshoot that’s tough, you deserve one hell of a pint or two if we were ever to meet.

    bamboo
    Free Member

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    Klunk
    Free Member

    For those genuine claimants I’ve total respect, you deserve all you can get out of the system

    Disability living seems like easy money

    seems like it.

    Tom_W1987
    Free Member

    Someone in my neighbourhood who I occasionally talk to, tells me she’s on higher rate disability living allowance, and can’t work because her shoulders dislocate, which is strange as she told me some time ago that she had an operation to basically “bolt them in”, but when I see her pick up her Labrador and carry it down the road they seem fine! But she also told me that she gets carers allowance for looking after her son who also gets higher rate disability living allowance (although he can ride his bike to school 4 miles away on the days he doesn’t get himself to and from high school, and plays badminton for the county team), whilst her husband gets careers allowance for looking after her ! As for walking she’s able to walk the 3dogs she has for miles, so in this case it does seem a good scam …..oh the doctor said she was fine, but she appealed as the doctor was biased because they had complained about him some years previously….why is there no way to get these things reported, so the money does go to those who do genuinely need it ?

    😆

    This reminds me of a phoney I once knew, some moron who just came up with pretend rants nobody really gave a damn about. He was a sad occurrence though, he really was. You know the part that really got me. The part that sometimes he was actually funny. Stuff like that always kills me. It really does.

    mrmo
    Free Member

    A question, do you want a safety net and accept some abusing it, or no safety net?

    There is no way you can make a system that has no abuse, so don’t even bother suggesting that.

    MrOvershoot
    Full Member

    Drac – Moderator

    Bloody hell Overshoot that’s tough, you deserve one hell of a pint or two if we were ever to meet.

    Used to come up to Northumberland for a holiday as we found some really good self catering cottages near Morpeth, not been the last 2 years as the last time nearly killed me.
    May try again next year and get the In Laws to fly up.

    Will give you a shout deffo

    epicyclo
    Full Member

    mrmo – Member
    A question, do you want a safety net and accept some abusing it, or no safety net?…

    The problem is those who do not want it have no empathy for those who need it and can never envisage needing it themselves one day, but life is more random than they can possibly imagine.

    Cougar
    Full Member

    That and the number of people abusing the system is almost certainly astonishingly lower than most people would guess, despite what the tabloids and apocryphal anecdotes would have us believe. It’d be hard to measure with any sort of reliability though – how do you measure people acting fraudulently without also catching them and preventing them from doing it, thus reducing the known total to zero?

    Plus as I said at the top of this page, successfully applying for PIP is not trivial. The process is lengthy, complicated and appears to be inherently designed to make you fail.

    Drac
    Full Member

    Will give you a shout deffo

    Please do and I will take you for a deserved pint.

    You’re a true reflection of how great people really are.

    dannyh
    Free Member

    Obvious tr……….

    Oh I can’t even be bothered with that, it’s too tiresome.

    RustySpanner
    Full Member

    It’s very rare, IME.
    I’ve seen one example I was unhappy with in about 10 years?

    Much more prevalent is financial abuse of the individual by friends and family members.
    Some nasty people out there.

    Agree with you completely about the PIP application process, deliberately designed to frustrate and humiliate.

    A couple I know, a Social Worker and hugely experienced Care Worker recently helped another friend with his application.
    They struggled, even with all the contacts and knowledge available to them.

    Love to all.

    jamj1974
    Full Member

    MrOvershoot. That’s unbelievably hard. I don’t know what to say, everything I’ve thought of since reading your post seems meaningless and empty. So sorry.

    teethgrinder
    Full Member

    The OP is a **** and I claim my £5

    I may have had a pint or 6, but I think my spidey senses still work. Just don’t swat me with you daily mail.

    garage-dweller
    Full Member

    The OP is a **** and I claim my £5

    Not without filling in a 41 page form in exactly the right way and then at least two appeals you won’t.

    There are plenty of times that many disabilities are not obvious and there are no doubt some who are successfully defrauding the system (although I’d hazard fewer than the Daily Fail would suggest) and also many who should be getting and don’t.

    You won’t get all the fraudsters in the same way you won’t get all the speeding drivers. That doesn’t mean that you should axe the system and it doesn’t mean longer forms either because all that does is cause more distress and doesn’t on the face of it produce such good results. Better to have a system than not.

    I suspect that the current system is fundamentally flawed for the reasons that Mr overshoot and cougar expressed (too much paper, too much variation in outcomes and the usual exposure to whether you get the sloppy, clock watcher or the devoted vocational type looking at it all, lengthy appeals process).

    Back to the OP point, if you really think it’s fraud then report it.

    twisty
    Full Member

    If you really genuinely think that somebody is fraudulently claiming benefits then you can report it.

    PeterPoddy
    Free Member

    Just having a read through, I think the basic point is that there are some people milking it, no doubt. But most aren’t, obviously.
    It would be good if those milking it were stopped and the extra bit of cash was shared around those that need it. I guess that’s the point of the more complex forms etc, but it’s missed the mark in some cases, not in others. If everyone was honest, the world would be a better place.

    epicyclo
    Full Member

    The medical profession is missing out on some talented geniuses. If only doctors could diagnose disabilities by just a cursory look instead of needing several years of training.

    Luckily there’s employment for those talented geniuses in the corridors of our government’s genocide programme disability assessment contractors.

    RustySpanner
    Full Member

    PeterPoddy – Member
    I guess that’s the point of the more complex forms etc, but it’s missed the mark in some cases, not in others.

    Pete, it would be different if that WAS the point, but it isn’t.

    Mr O’s example from the previous page:

    Preparing a meal for yourself, do you use adapted cutlery?”
    YES
    NO
    SOMETIMES

    Any of the given answers can be taken to mean that the applicant CAN prepare a meal independently.

    Many people cannot eat without assistance, let alone prepare a meal.
    Many people cannot eat or swallow at all.
    They may be able to eat SOME food using adapted cutlery, under supervision.

    It’s a very clever question designed to discount as many people as possible.

    Combined with up to 50% cuts to community mental health teams, closures of day centres (which can be someone’s entire life away from their home) etc I cannot see this as anything but a deliberate attempt to attack the most vulnerable.

    jamj1974
    Full Member

    Rusty+1. Worth remembering though, that some of these changes began in the Blair years…

    binners
    Full Member

    Mrs Binners was until recently working with two disability charities

    Be under no illusions. The present system is explicitly designed to deny benefits to the most vulnerable people in society.

    If a society is judged on how it treats the weakest, then our society has failed quite profoundly

    jamj1974
    Full Member

    If a society is judged on how it treats the weakest, then our society has failed quite profoundly

    My view entirely.

    PeterPoddy
    Free Member

    Any of the given answers can be taken to mean that the applicant CAN prepare a meal independently.

    Many people cannot eat without assistance, let alone prepare a meal.
    Many people cannot eat or swallow at all.
    They may be able to eat SOME food using adapted cutlery, under supervision.

    Oh yeah that’s a shitty question that’s not been thought through. If I were filling in that form I’d cross that out and write ‘unable to prepare own meals’ or ‘ no use of hands, can’t hold cutlery at all’ or something to that effect.
    It not the first crap question I’ve seen in a benefits form, and I doubt it’s the last. It’s not in the same league, granted, but the shit I had to put up with for my unemployment benefit for 2.5 months was astonishing. They really really look down on you, and I guess that’s the same with disability benefits. I’m just blunt and confident enough to tell ’em to poke it and get on with their job.

    Cougar
    Full Member

    Preparing a meal for yourself, do you use adapted cutlery?”
    YES
    NO
    SOMETIMES

    Any of the given answers can be taken to mean that the applicant CAN prepare a meal independently.

    I hadn’t spotted that. It’s basically “when did you stop beating your wife” isn’t it.

    Be under no illusions. The present system is explicitly designed to deny benefits to the most vulnerable people in society.

    I’d like to believe that it wasn’t intentional, but that was exactly the feeling I got from it.

    We had help with the forms from a counsellor and from a disability rights warrior who was very familiar with the process, we explained on the forms in great detail exactly what areas she struggled with (which took days to complete) and then as I said earlier, after the assessment we came away with total ‘disability points’ score of zero. Ditto after an appeal.

    Now, I could totally understand that in their opinion she wasn’t eligible for the benefits, though I’d think it a shocking miscarriage of a decision; but a total of zero? That’s simply corrupt, someone somewhere is taking the piss.

    What makes me incandescent about the whole thing is, we had help and still that’s what happened. The initial interview was botched, and it was a face-to-face interview with my wife who’s Aspie. For the appeal her counsellor accompanied her but wasn’t allowed to speak (though in fairness, I’m not 100% certain whether that was actually their process or she’d misunderstood). So how on earth is someone with more severe disabilities supposed to be expected to fill out a huge form (I can’t remember exactly how long, someone earlier said 41 pages and that sounds about right, A4 sized) and handle multiple face-to-face interrogations? Can you imagine putting someone more heavily autistic through that process? It’d be wicked and cruel, and should be criminal.

    Still, hey, I expect the claimant stats have fallen, the government must be doing a great job of rounding up all those frauds and scroungers.

    cinnamon_girl
    Full Member

    Cougar – Did you consider getting your MP involved?

    Edit: it does appear that these companies appointed by the Government operate on some sort of commission basis. I’ve heard from various thyroid forums that these investigators lie and falsify answers to questions. It’s disgraceful.

    Cougar
    Full Member

    I suggested that but by that point she was exhausted (this had rattled on for months on end) and just wanted an end to the process. I was spitting blood, but I couldn’t pursue it further without her being on board and I didn’t want to prolong the agony.

    I did wonder whether it was some sort of quota system; they can’t give any more awards once they’d reached their total. Purely speculation on my part though. We have a friend who was going through the same process at around the same time, she’s got similar issues to the ones my wife had only less severe and she got awarded PIP at the higher rate. Only difference is she lives in a more affluent area than we do.

    cinnamon_girl
    Full Member

    Yes, I would imagine the whole process is draining. I saw my MP a few months back to discuss the discrimination I’m now experiencing, due to Lyme disease, at my GP Surgery. MP was very interested and offered to help. I did decline but am now thinking of talking with MP again as the surgery are now ignoring a letter from an NHS consultant.

    I know this website is used by some on the thyroid forums, you do have to pay a subscription though.

    https://www.benefitsandwork.co.uk/forum/index?view=category

    Edit: definitely worth getting hold of all medical records which you’re legally entitled to although there will be a charge:

    http://www.nhs.uk/chq/Pages/1309.aspx?CategoryID=68&SubCategoryID=160

    bearnecessities
    Full Member

    I did wonder whether it was some sort of quota system; they can’t give any more awards once they’d reached their total. Purely speculation on my part though.

    Nope.

    Junkyard
    Free Member

    I did wonder whether it was some sort of quota system; they can’t give any more awards once they’d reached their total

    their is no quota

    Their is a politicised agenda to make anyone fit for work whatever the medical condition hence the clearly legitimate cases being classed as fit to work

    I know a few horrors

    1. Man waiting for triple bypass [after serious heart attack] in scooter with oxygen tank forced to look for work as he waited for the operation- about 4 weeks ish

    2. A woman who had a serous back injury after a car accident requiring a series of operation with 23 hours per day spent face down to place no strain on the back classed as fit for work. her consultants letter stating his credentials, publications and awards as well as his diagnosis, whilst asking for the Dr expertise in this area, was a think of beauty to read.

    3. Woman classed as fit to work by Dr. Finds jobs has assessment by company and fails the fitness to work test for the company
    It was the same doctor doing both tests

    4. From the papers – woman recieved news[ by letter from DwP] that she was fit to work on the day she died from the condition.

    BASTARDS – its heartbreaking to have to deal with sort of thing. Its a **** national disgrace I wonder what folks reaction would be if the papers were full of these stories rather than benefit scrounger tirades

    I wonder why the BMA do not go after the Drs and withdraw their licence and the Dr’s really should be independent of DwP and the rules should be made by doctors.

    Essentially the rule basically seems to be if you can cross your room to pick up a phone sometimes, make a sandwich and have unaided toilet trips then you are fit for work.

    epicyclo
    Full Member

    Where are the employers for people with these disabilities?

    MrOvershoot
    Full Member

    Rusty Spanner – Member Any of the given answers can be taken to mean that the applicant CAN prepare a meal independently.

    Many people cannot eat without assistance, let alone prepare a meal.
    Many people cannot eat or swallow at all.
    They may be able to eat SOME food using adapted cutlery, under supervision.

    PeterPoddy – Oh yeah that’s a shitty question that’s not been thought through. If I were filling in that form I’d cross that out and write ‘unable to prepare own meals’ or ‘ no use of hands, can’t hold cutlery at all’ or something to that effect.

    PP that’s exactly what I did on the forms including the signature bit where I said my wife who used to do calligraphy would love to even be able to hold a pen never mind do a meaningful signature.

    Thanks for all the support on here from various people you really don’t know how much it helps.

    Its come to the point a few times where I hate to say it I thought it would be better for both of us if we were dead & gone to end our suffering!

    Tonight while I was feeding her her supper she looked at me with such a trusting love I was ashamed of such thoughts.

    For any others caring for people I hope your OK and all the best of bloody luck

    zanelad
    Free Member

    My daughter claims DLA for our grandson. He has some mobility issues, and a couple of health problems, not in my opinion enough to warrant a payment from the state. She claims a lowish level of carers allowance too.

    However, shes’s entitled to it and she claims it. Makes life easier for the lad and for her.

    She had help in filling out the claims form from a council worker who knew what to say, and what not to say.

    Life’s just a game, you got to know the rules.

    Jamie
    Free Member

    Life’s just a game, you got to know the rules.

    😐

    brassneck
    Full Member

    She had help in filling out the claims form from a council worker who knew what to say, and what not to say.

    Creeping into education too, Mrs B is a SENCO and often has to support families (as often the parents have issues that just weren’t acknowledged in their school days) to even get to the point they are considered for help. How many even then don’t get it is heartbreaking for her. It’s scary that there are tactics being developed to get it though an ATOS filter.

    Fraudulent types? 1/100 if that. Seems a decent return to me.

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