I'm not in a position to do online dating sites, but tbh, it appears a numbers game and sadly it seems the people on these sites aren't exactly accurate about themselves, certainly in the case of fitness singles..
Luckily i don't seem to have a problem in meeting lovely ladies and do so, despite my social status of a rambling hobo.
Somehow, ladies like the idea of me living a minimalistic life, dwelling in a cobweb strewn outhouse and doing various jobs from Bee keeping, orchard care, apple pressing, audio and visual and construction. Then there's my love of the outdoors and in wildlife photography. Maybe it makes me interesting to talk to.
It helps i'm relatively fit, not carrying lard and easy on the eye, so i've heard. Plus if they even get my sense of humour as it's a little quick for most, it's a good.
It's just a well then that i'm at first very shy and rarely approach women. But wherever i go, there they seem to be and for some reason, they approach me. It's then i strike with either a repellent or a waft of natural pheromones to lure them to my lair.
I don't wear aftershave or deodorant, i wear no fancy fashionable clothes and am at most of the appearance that i've just walked through a hedge or festering ditch, which i normally have.
What i'm saying here is that i don't go looking for it, i don't make an effort to be anything other than what and who i am and in doing so, i only meet people who are genuinely interested in me, i'm almost always in a place where i like to be, doing the things i like to do and thus, meet likewise people.