More of a daft phone call, but anyway…
Me: “Aaah, hello *ex girlfriend*, just thought I’d call to say that I’ll be doing a masters, so I’ll not be able to pay you back the last £5,000 for the holiday* this year”
Me: “But don’t worry, I’ll be earning much better afterwards, so I’ll try to bung it back to you in one year when I have a job that uses this qualification and pays well**”
Her: “You got pissed about a year ago and sent me an email telling me I wasn’t going to get it. Last week I gave up, shredded all the bank statements and wrote it off in my mind.”***
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Me:”REALY?!? So this phonecall just cost me 5K?”
etc etc etc
*9 month NZ/Oz/Bali/Lombok cycling holiday – she had the money, wanted to pay for it up front. Amazingly, after the later breakup the terms for repayment mysteriously got confused and discussions became heated.
**The original terms of the loan for the trip – repaid after Uni.
***Not exactly true, she already has about back 5K from me, which is part of the reason I have been broke for the last few years. This was achieved by giving away my entire student loan and savings while doing my BSc. The only reason I sent her a rude email is because she was pestering me for more money, despite changing her plans twice in a year regarding places to live and university courses which she then dropped out of. And I pad for. With my student loan.
I forgot I had sent the email…. it was VERY unlike me, but I was furious!
It’s all cool, now. I just wish I’d not called her to give her an update.