I was a bit of a hater too, right up until Rutland Cycling out at Grafham did an e-bike taster day and I got my GF to come along to it.
She does a bit of road biking, but it’s painful (she broke her back a few years ago) and she doesn’t like going out on trails because she gets a lot of pain and can’t keep up with people.
Her first lap on an e-bike was a revelation for her. She spent most of the first half laughing (which was cruel, ‘cos I was blowing out my hoop trying to keep up with her) and loved being out. They she tried a full sus e-bike and loved it even more.
Yes, they are expensive (the one she wanted was about 3.5-4k, but it means that she can come out with me, keep up, have fun and not get her spine rattled to bits.
Is it cheating? Maybe, but it does mean she can get out and _we_ can go mountain biking together.