as a matter of principle I don’t disagree

Good, so we’re both idiots or homophobes and wrong for some reason.

I took it for granted we’re talking exclusively about the principle here since I assume nobody in this thread has any power to make every law of the land fair and logical, or time to campaign for that.

(how many poly triads does the average person know?)

I don’t know how you’d define “average” in this context,but I know a few if it helps your statistics any.

Whereas I don’t know any, so the average number of triads known by the average person (sample size: 2) is (few/2). HTH

“polyamory”

Is that where Mrs Hooley lives?