Jef – I’m 6’3 as well, 35″ inside leg.
On a 17.5″ frame you need a fairly long seatpost, but its not detremental to the ride. The NS is as long as most 19″ frames, so its sized down already (if that makes sense)..
my fs bike is a 16″ banshee wildcard. Its got pretty much the same length virtual tt as a 20″ 456, so it fits well (even on that bike I can get a 350mm post up high enough for long XC treks – however it is a little short for road rides).
if he’s 13 he’s probably fit as hell, so something that’s a little compromised for xc won’t be the end of the world, but if you get something you can’t slam the saddle on it will (in my opinion) harm his ability to do freeride/dh/jumps/drops