“You do need a fair amount of grunt to get some joining pins out so just keep trying!”
If you are using a mutlitool one, they’re usually too short to provide a decent amount of leverage, which will make it quite difficult to do. Either try harder or use an independant chain tool. I’ve got a topeak one for £6-7 (that the handle unscrews and can use as extra leverage when using allen keys on a multitool
“Or get your old chain ‘measured’ and see if it needs replacing anyway.”
Or buy a chain measuring tool for £5-10 and do it your self
“it bent . this can happen if you dont oil your chain regularly. if you wash the bike and leave it to dry then you get a rusty chain within a few days, then links can dry and seize up then get bent. so every time you wash the bike (Always oil afterwards and obviously oil before you set off… dont think our mate oiled his chain properly !! it was a a newish chain too !”
Your chain will wear out quicker if you don’t oil your chain, or leave to dry/rust after washing. The chain gets weaker and bends
If its a new chain its much more likely it just had a weak link, or you happened to be putting power down and you(or the bike) decided to change (a few) gear(s) at the time
If its new(ish) definetly stick a powerlink in
Edinburgh bicycle co-op were the cheapest last time I bought a load in. They’ve got puncture repair kits for £1 too which I bought a few of and other bits and bobs I could do with to get it over £20 (to get free postage)