One of my sons comes across as very outgoing and warm, and tends to be liked by the adults who meet him. Indeed, when he left Year 6, he was awarded the school’s award for general contribution to the community.
At the same time, he has always had trouble with other boys harassing him (mild bullying). He just doesn’t seem to have any political instinct for staying away from idiots and/or not allowing himself to become a victim.
None of my other kids have this trouble.
I have tried to explain how he can act ‘un-phased’ so as not to attract unwanted attention, but I really don’t think he will be very successful at this, as he just doesn’t read situations well enough to recognise the most appropriate behaviour at a given time.
I have also tried to make it clear to him that, if necessary (and only as an absolute LAST resort) he should know that his parents wouldn’t be made if he got in trouble for standing up for himself.
Anyone else have a child that struggles with being bullied, but whom you can see not doing much to help him/herself?
Thoughts? What have you done?