Hi, just thought after all the helpfull advice I recieved I would post an update (though i doubt anyone is really that interested but what the hell!)
I went to Adelaide for a few weeks to see what it was like there, and I loved it! I already have my visa and my flight booked to go back there in early october!
Met some lovely people and I was almost shocked to have people crying out for me to hurry up and get back so I can start working for them!
Exciting times ahead for me, I hope, even though it's a long way from home and family, I have a good man there waiting for me to go and start a new chapter of my life with and I can't wait!