We have a couple of friends coming to stay with us for New Year which we haven't seen for about six years, they were coming for Christmas but at the last minute (Boxing Day) they decided that they would spend it with friends at home, leaving us with loads of extra food and ruined plans for Xmas.
So, they're coming for New Year. Good stuff. They are due to arrive today, and have just said that one of the girls is bringing her new boyfriend with her - we have made tea for the friends, who we haven't seen for years and wanted to spend time with them.
Surely they should have told us in advance, not when they're about to arrive?
Both of us feel very used at the moment, and going to be hard to put a happy face on - surely they'd want to see us, not just use the house as somewhere to stay?