just to throw in more personal experience...all of these forks are still in regular use either by me, my girlfriend or on the front of friends bikes as loaners.
2003 Vanilla 125 - never serviced, sold in 2006, new owner changed oil once, bushings now sloppy but still working ok.
2004? Vanilla 130 - dropped the lowers off about 3 years ago, were perfect then, still work perfect now although slightly weepy seal on one side so might change that soon.
2005 36 TALAS - bought 2nd hand in 2008, no idea about previous owner services, I was going to service them this year but cracked the lowers so had new lowers fitted, apparently uppers were fine when the shop swapped them for me.
2009 36 TALAS - bought 2nd hand in 2010, no idea about previous owner services, no *visible* signs of wear but then I've never taken the lowers off these forks yet so who knows.... feel peachy though
2007 36 Floats - bought 2nd hand this year, no idea about previous services, lowers dropped off last week and no signs of wear, will keep riding and recheck in the spring.
2008 32 Vanilla - no service yet, going on previous vanillas I don't intend to service them either unless they start feeling poo or oil comes out of bits its not supposed to.
2006 Coil Recons - weepy seal, other than that no wear that i could see when i dropped the lowers yesterday aftnoon.
2010 Domains - never touched them, dont intend to, i recon they will go on forever
1999 Marzocchi Z1 - changed the oil about 5 years ago, still perfect
1999 Marzocchi Z2 - never touched them, still work fine, no leaks yet...
2005 Boxxers - klunky, leaky, scratched and chipped uppers but no wear - def in need of a service internally....
FWIW, I rarely if ever actually clean my bikes (ask my mates, they will vouch for that...), I wipe off the big clumps from the whirly bits and the bouncy bits, apply a little lube and other than that i just wait for the bumps and puddles to rattle/splash the rest off.
So going on my personal experience, pretty much all forks are reliable for me, I ruined a few pairs of judys in the 90's but I dont really count them, they were awful.